First of all, you are constantly manifesting – you can’t start or stop! From the moment you were born, you were manifesting!
We live in a Law of Attraction based reality and our perceived realities are created via our subconscious beliefs, thoughts and expectations. When it comes to the deliberate manifestation of your desires, you usually have to recondition not only your conscious mind, but your subconscious mind, too. Once these are fully aligned with one another, deliberate creation or manifestation is free to occur far more quickly and effectively.
Remember that although books about deliberate creation, such as those written by Wallace D Wattles in the early 1900’s, have been around for a many decades, society is still conditioned to operate on the conscious mind, which is essentially a very inefficient computer when compared to the infinite power and knowledge of the subconscious mind (which is linked to the Higher Self, which in turn, is linked to Source energy).
Your Limiting Beliefs Are Like Huge Road Blocks
Although the subsequent posts are also pretty important, this one is most likely to be the main culprit preventing your desires from manifesting.
With all your heart, you could desire a new beautiful car, a more spacious home, an abundance of cash, a sexy new, longterm partner and so on. However, if your subconscious mind doesn’t believe you already have whatever it is that you desire, you won’t be able to bring it into your reality.
In order to manifest successfully and consistently, you must remove any limiting beliefs that are holding you back from manifesting your desires. This can be done using any of the following methods:
- Listening to subliminal brainwave affirmations whilst sleeping
- Psych-K therapy
- EFT tapping
- Spiritual response therapy healing (also known as SRT)
- Hypnosis and Self-Hypnosis
Brainwave affirmations can be easily found in great abundance on youtube and they can help install new beliefs of all kinds. This is an example of a brainwave affirmation video. As they’re on Youtube, they are completely free to listen to, of course, and they can be extremely effective when used correctly. You’ll need to listen to them on headphones for two hours, whilst asleep, and on a low to medium volume. If you hate the idea of sleeping with headphones on, you’re definitely not alone. This is probably why so many people are reluctant to try out this method of limiting belief removal. Try wearing headbands with flat headphones inside. You can buy these online from Amazon.
The main downside of using brainwave affirmations isn’t the headphones, though; it’s that it takes 21-28 days for the mind to accept the new, positive beliefs in the subliminal recordings. Additionally, even as adults, we’re still picking up new limiting beliefs from others and the media all the time! So after manifesting an initial desire, like a wonderful new partner, you’ll have to listen to the brainwave affirmations all over again for a further 21-28 days.
Bear in mind that different brainwave affirmations exist to reprogram the subconscious for all kinds of various benefits from growing hair faster to clearer skin or attracting kinder friends. Look for videos such as the one below which are specifically designed and created to remove all limiting beliefs.
Hypnosis sessions can be incredibly costly, and it’s very unlikely that you’ll just need the one. The upside, however, is that you won’t have to wait weeks for changes to take place. The new beliefs/ programs are installed then and there are are effective immediately. If you can afford a good few hypnosis sessions, go for it! If you like, you can use brainwave affirmations and another form of reprogramming, such as Hypnosis. That’s totally up to you!
Any beliefs that we hold can be viewed like energetic computer programs. We all have programs; both positive and negative. Whatever beliefs or programs we’re running will create our realities so it’s much better to install positive beliefs and programs.
A few words of caution about using subliminal brainwave affirmations: if you have tinnitus or hyperacusis, ask your doctor before using going ahead with the use of them as prolonged ear-level noise every night may not be suitable for you. Also, they’re only intended for use by those over the age of 18.
Your Faith & Trust in the Universe is Low
Some people feel that at times, or throughout their lives, they have not been supported by the Universe. Remember that the Universe is like a large mirror, reflecting back to you what you think, believe and feel about yourself.
You might find that some energy healing modalities may help with raising your trust in the Universe. For example, Spiritual Response Therapy may be able to eliminate any negative programs, limiting beliefs and other negative energies you may subconsciously hold.
You Aren’t Incorporating Daily Positive Affirmations
If you’re not using positive affirmations that are relevant to what you wish to manifest next, you could be missing out! Write down a handful of powerful, positive affirmations and repeat these to yourself twice a day after a brief meditation session. To amplify the effect, you can also try saying them to yourself — with feeling, in the mirror. You can even record them on your smartphone and play them back just before bed, when in a relaxed state, or first thing in the morning whilst eating breakfast and getting ready for your day. Ask for your Highest team of Angels and Guides, or Arch Angel Micheal — whomever you wish, to be present in the recording for a greater effect.
You Don’t Feel as Though You Already Have It
In order to allow your desire to appear in your perceived reality, it’s vital that you feel as though you already have it. This is so counter intuitive and goes completely against what we have been taught all our lives which is; once I have it, I’ll believe it. Well, when manifesting a desire, you have to believe you already have it before you receive it! This is about causing effect rather than cause and effect. This will also really help to speed up the manifestation process!
You Keep Wondering When & How It Will Arrive
Infinite Creation, made you, me, the planet, the Universe. It knows so much better than we do. Leave it up to your subconscious, Higher Self, to bring your desire to you. It will identify so many ways to bring it to you that your limited conscious mind can’t even begin to fathom. You could sit down by yourself or with a friend and list all of the various ways your conscious mind can think of your desire coming to you.
It’s likely you’ll reach a point where you’ll run out of ideas. Some people will run out of ideas a lot later than others as they might be more creative but Creation knows infinite ways to bring your desires to you. You could be walking down the road and your eyes will automatically be drawn to a rare antique coin on the sidewalk. You could take it to a dealer and they might tell you it’s worth the amount of money that you aligned with. A distant relative or someone you only knew briefly may leave you money in a will or a check for a refund you weren’t expecting will appear in the mail; you just never know!
Leave it to the Universe to surprise and delight you!
Your Emotional Input is Unnatural or Missing Entirely
Visualisation is very important but emotion is too. Take a few moments to really think about how you would feel if you received a lot of money from a pleasant source, or if you met a new friend or lover. If you really feel as though something is attainable, like a new job, a fun, new partner, or windfall of money, you’re signalling to the Universe that you already have it, so you’re in vibrational harmony and alignment with it. This will allow it to pop into your experience a lot sooner.
Remember that energy seeks the path of least resistance and if you feel that it’s appropriate, enter the lottery as you’ll be providing the Universe with yet another effortless way to bring your desire to you.
You’re Saying “I Want” and “I Need”
When Creating Affirmations or putting in an order to manifest a desire, never, ever use words of lack such as want or need. In order to bring into your perceived reality what you desire, you must feel at though whatever it is that you desire is already yours and you’re experiencing it in the present moment.
Saying that you need or want something suggests that you don’t already have it so you’re out of vibrational alignment with it. This is because the present moment is the only moment that the subconscious mind understands and it’s your subconscious mind which creates your reality. For example, if it thinks you are wealthy, you will move into vibrational alignment with wealth and abundance and it will attract wealth and abundance into your reality.
Remember that if you’re trying too hard, or wanting or needing something too much, it’s showing your subconscious mind that you don’t already have it, so it won’t manifest.
Your Vibration is Off
Manifesting anything positive in a bad mood is pretty tricky. Try to raise your vibration by keeping the ego mind in check. Remember to meditate regularly; two to three times a day to remain calm and to remind yourself of your connection to Source energy.
You Manifestation is Exclusively For Your Own Benefit
Go Easy on Yourself!
You’ve had limiting beliefs since you were a child! Limiting beliefs have been plaguing the human population for at least hundreds of years. Clearing all these away is a process and can take quite a while.
If you already know about limiting beliefs and you’ve started reprogramming your subconscious with new, positive beliefs, those are two huge steps towards manifesting the life you desire and you should really be patting yourself on the back for it! Most people have yet to even discover the way our reality works and many have never even heard of the Law of Attraction.
And just like with acquiring any new skillset, such as learning how to drive or play the piano, you’ll likely suck at first! But don’t give up. Can you imagine being a great driver or professional pianist off the bat? Of course not! Everything requires learning, trial and error — and practice. If you give up now, you may very well be giving up on the life you’ve always wanted. Keep on going and who knows where you’ll be this time next year…
If you’re still struggling to learn about the way the Law of Attraction works, have a look at our Law of Attraction Resources page to learn more about it.